091122[mz3]気まずくなったあとの控えめさ

091122[mz3]-3 risk regulation; perceived regard; avoidance
When self-protection overreaches:
Relationship-specific threat activates domain-general avoidance motivation

（ふるてくすとあう゛ぇいらぶるです）

恋愛関係におけるリスク制御，というコンテンツ。

論文の冒頭の「こんな話」↓
On Friday night, James and Helen are deliberating over the menu of a new restaurant. Although things start out pleasantly, Helen’s vacillation between options and James’ pointed comment about her having “commitment issues” triggers an argument about their relationship that leaves James doubting Helen’s true feelings toward him. For the rest of their meal, James is particularly withdrawn. On the drive home, he deviates from his usual tendency to drive fast and instead, takes great care not to exceed the speed limit. To Helen’s annoyance, James stops for gas despite having some left in the tank and informs her that “One can never be too careful.”

Jamesくんはどうしてそんな風に控えめになっちゃうのか？

なんだか十分に心当たりありますね。ありますよね？